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practicing Tantra can benefit me and my wife? |
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Tantra
does
more
than
simply
enhance
one's
lovemaking
skills.
It
teaches
us
to
be
more
aware
of
the
life
force
that
is
always
flowing
through
us,
and
how
to
guide
that
flow
consciously.
The
more
you
flow
with
it,
the
more
it
flows
to
you
and
through
you
to
energize
your
life.
The
high
energy
flowing
through
our
body
and
brain
is
very
nourishing,
balancing
and
rejuvenating.
And
couples
who
practice
Tantra
together
give
each
other
the
gift
of
life
through
pleasure
and
joy.
the
greatest
gift
we
can
give
one
another,
and
it's
priceless!
By
creating a harmonious union of the male and
female aspects that are within each of us,
Tantra helps us to understand how these
sometimes irreconcilable forces can enlighten
and heal one another. The
result is a heightened state of awareness, and
access to an enormous energy which can be
channeled into "full body orgasms"
that radiate throughout the body and brain.
This is really exciting, exhilarating, energizing and mind expanding!
It provides us with knowledge of our divine
essence, that force which created us, so that we
can live in accordance with our most beautiful
and radiant self. Tantra
teaches how to experience this heightened
awareness in our daily lives and how to apply
this dynamic force into every aspect of our
lives... Continue>>
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practicing Tantra: Benefits
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| Can
Tantra help me with premature ejaculation? |
| Definitely!
I
find that most man who experience difficulties
with premature ejaculation are really gifted
with a tremendous degree of sensitivity in their
ability to feel pleasurable sensations.
The problem lies in their
fear of coming too soon and so they often try to
remedy this by resisting "feeling too
good". When this is the action that
is taken it is something like trying to hold
back a tidal wave with your bare hands. The more
a man tries to hold back, the more frustrating
and defeating it becomes. Therefore
premature ejaculation turns into a downward
spiral, the more you try to control it, the less
you are able to enjoy the pleasure.
For many men the solution
is to desensitize in order to not feel too much.
Numbing the sensations of pleasure by thinking
about baseball scores or taxes or some other
distracting mind game, does not solve the
problem. It simply diminishes the power
and magnitude of the experience. You both
deserve better than that. I can tell you
from being on the receiving end of a man caught
up in this battle, it is not inspiring or
romantic. In the practices of higher
sex, one learns not to try and control this
force, but rather how to relax and fully enjoy
it, by making more space for it. Not
limiting it, but rather expanding one's capacity
to enjoy the pleasures of sensual and sexual
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| How
a man can become multi-orgasmic? |
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It
is
possible
that
a
man
can
have
multiple
orgasms
without
ejaculating.
It's
not
about
withholding
the
orgasm,
as
some
staunch
traditionalists
or
unenlightened
people
might
think.
It's
really
about
diverting
the
ejaculation,
inward
and
outward
so
that
it
turns
into
streams
of
pleasurable
energy
that
look
and
feel
like
an
orgasm,
without
the
ejaculatory
release!
Through
deep
relaxation
and
focus
of
the
mind
a
man
can
become
not
just
Multi-Orgasmic…
but
also
Full
Body
Orgasmic!
Ordinarily,
during what it's called "genital friction sex"
or "button pushing sex,"
orgasm and ejaculation are experienced by men as one
and the same. But in truth, they are
separate functions, which stem from opposite
sides, of the nervous system. Although
they often do occur simultaneously, it is
possible that each can be experienced
independent of the other. It's possible for
a man to ejaculate without experiencing much
physical pleasure at all. Most men have
experienced this at least once in their lives.
Therefore it must be also possible that a man
can increase of pleasure volume and decrease the
sense of urgency to release. Repeated
ejaculatory orgasms and multiple, full body
orgasms are NOT the same thing! Men who
experience Tantric multiple orgasms frequently
enjoy pleasurable sensations that are very
similar to those that women feel during multiple
orgasms... Continue>>
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| Can
Tantra help me to get and maintain erection? |
| I
frequently encounter clients who, as they mature
and their hormone levels shift, they begin to
lose faith in their own sexuality. Men become
victims of the myth of the Perpetual
Erection. It has always existed, but it's
become even more destructive because of the way
in which the issue is treated in most
pornography, which always features a purported
Superman. That's not reality. Often porn stars use Viagra or "fluffers",
women whose job it is to keep them aroused and
hard for their performance. It
often seems as though performance anxiety and
the pressure that goes along with it is the
culprit that causes impotency and perpetuates
it. Often I've found that when a man
doesn't put pressure on himself nor does his
partner, the problem resolves itself, just being
present and thoroughly enjoying the moment.
In Tantric sex,
it's not so important how hard your erection is,
how long it lasts, or whether or not you are
even hard at all. Not only is it
possible to have an orgasm without ejaculating,
I have also known men who have had profound full
body orgasms and multiples, without even being
erect!... Continue>>
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| How
long do I have to practice to become Tantric? |
| Lifetime
-- for a short answer. Since
Tantra is a matter of attitude in the first
place, you've already made your first step on
the Tantric path if you are reading this. Next
step is to learn principals, techniques and
nuances, and start practicing, alone or with
your partner. Because
everyone is unique, each person learns at his or
her own pace. You can learn the foundations of
these practices during your first session. Then,
your progress will depend upon your commitment
to mastering the art of being both aroused and
relaxed, at the same time. On the average, most
men have found that after only two or three
sessions they have gained enough experience and
skill, that they can confidently practice on
their own, or with partner, continuing to
progress in this arena. I encourage
solo-practices as a way to integrate and fully
understand the methods being taught. Regular
practice will enable this knowledge to take root
in you and become more your natural way of
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| Can
I practice Tantra if I don't have a partner? |
| Tantra
can be practiced either solo or as a couple. The
solo path is known as White Tantra and
includes disciplines which prepare the body for
sustaining high levels of sexual energy for
prolonged periods of time. The practice
of Red Tantra is when lovers engage in
a dance of erotic energy that opens them to
discover increased love and intimacy between
them. Naturally, the intensity increases as you
share this practice with someone you care about.
Tantra offers techniques that not only enhance
ones lovemaking skills, it also teaches us how
to increase our life force and focus it towards
heightened vitality and greater rewards in all
aspects of life. In addition, Tantra helps you
to become more charismatic, therefore, it may
actually help you to create or find a deeply
resonant relationship with a partner, if you
don't already have one. Once awareness and skill
have been attained, men become more emotionally
available and then are more capable to connect
intimately with a woman. Together in union, they
can then travel the path of conscious sexual
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How many sessions will I need and how often should I come in? |
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There
is no set number of sessions that you should
have. You will learn techniques that will
benefit you and that you can incorporate in to
your life after the very first session. It
depends on you personally. I don’t ever tell
people they have to come a certain number of
times. Some people experience it out of
curiosity and find they love it, but it isn't a
path for everyone. I love my dedicated students,
they become my teachers and friends. It always
has to be people who are committed to
transformation and open to really
experiencing all of life's emotions. Some
clients come every week, because they really get
the value of this work, and they want to be
masters.
I
have a few clients that I've been seeing for
years and years. Those are the relationships
that are especially wonderful, because we are
truly learning from each other and watching
tremendous growth take place, both in us
individually and as a Tantric love team. Some
other clients would love to see me often, but
they live too far away, some as far as in
Australia and New Zealand, all over Europe, in
South America. These dedicated clients come to
Las Vegas once a year for a few days and
schedule several sessions on consecutive days,
and I can see their tremendous progress in
Tantric practices.
It
is completely up to you how often and how
regularly you can visit me, but I would
recommend seeing me or another professional
Tantrika on a monthly basis, and do your "homeplay"
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| How
can I learn more about Tantra? |
| Traditionally,
seekers were introduced to Tantra by enlightened
Tantric teachers and practitioners who taught and guided them
over years of dedicated studies. Nowadays you
can learn these sacred secrets privately with a
personal coach or in workshops and seminars with
a group of other students. There is also
a great number of excellent books and videos
available to help get you started. Although it is
not as likely that you will derive direct
transmissions of the experiences of Tantra
simply through reading about it, you can
however, gain an understanding of the
fundamental principles and some of the
practices. I hope that you gain enough
understanding that you can pursue this path to
discover your own satisfaction. My mission is to
introduce sincere people who are ready to
experience this extraordinary path of higher
consciousness through love, sex and intimacy,
which leads to greater fulfillment in all of
life.
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| What
can I expect at my first session? |
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path of Tantra is very personal, and since each
person is unique, sessions are custom tailored
to supportively guide individuals and couples
through awakening passion, pleasure and a
peaceful state of mind. Your first session will
begin with a conversation, which allows us to
get acquainted and establish a rapport with one
another. Next, we begin to
practice these techniques while you're in a
state of deep, conscious relaxation. I will
introduce you to the fundamentals that will help
you unlock the immense, pleasurable yet healing power that
is inside of you, just waiting to be
experienced. Then I use nurturing and arousing
touch to take you on a sensual journey that
helps you to find that perfect balance between
excitement and relaxation. Once we have found
that balance, you enter a zone which I call
Tantric time. In that state, you can experience
immense pleasure, which can be sustained for
remarkably long periods of time. |
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| How
long does each session last? |
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It depends on what you want to learn and experience.
I recommend to take your first session for a minimum of 2 hours.
This gives us enough time to establish a
significant degree of trust, which then allows
us to explore the deep levels of intimacy that
are inherent in this practice.
Since
Tantra prolongs pleasure and extends one's
orgasmic capacity, thus allowing you to
experience the nourishing benefits of deep
bliss; longer sessions also can be arranged. I
recommend booking an extended session especially
if it's not likely that we can meet on a very
regular basis. Couple’s sessions usually take
2 - 4 hours.
New clients can request a
1-1.5-hour introductory session. I recommend
sessions that are focused on education +
experience. |
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this full service?
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| In
the vulgar sense, NO. In the Tantric sense, YES
-- it is a full service Tantric school, from
basic Tantric education to possibly sharing and
practicing Love the Tantric way. I don’t make any promises to people as far as what
is or isn’t going to happen during a session, because I honestly never know.
Each session is different because I tune into each person's body to find what
their individual needs are, which can often be very different from what their
expectations are. I'm interested in working with people who have open minds and can release their
self limiting pictures. Tantra is about sharing love and energy without goals
or agendas. I do what feels good and appropriate to me for each individual
session, and I can’t say what that looks like until afterwards.
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Should I work with several different goddesses or should I just stick with one?
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always advise my students to try sessions with
other Tantrikas. Working with several teachers and
attending a variety of workshops and events gives you a broader perspective of
what Tantra really is. Every single teacher I have studied with has a completely
different approach and focus and a unique way of presenting it. When you find a
teacher you like you'll want to stick with her because there is a depth and
richness in the intimacy that is an essential part of Tantra. If you find
yourself wanting to flit around to lots and lots of different Goddesses, it
could be because you don't feel you are ready for that level of deep connection.
Please remember, a real Tantric Goddess is your
life mentor, not just someone who does excellent
bodywork. It takes a unique set of personal
qualities to become a true Tantric Goddess, and
that is why there are so few of us...
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| Can
you teach me how to please and satisfy my
partner better? |
| In
order to be able to give your partner pleasure,
it's best if you have a grasp of how to expand
this pleasure within yourself. So first, I will
teach you how to unfold and receive pleasure fully.
I emphasize this first because learning to
receive pleasure deeply allows you to become a
fantastic giver of great pleasures, because that
place is familiar to you. Naturally, the
more capable you are to open yourself up to
receiving pleasure, the more you'll be able to
please your partner. Receiving pleasure and
loving attention is difficult for many people.
Especially men, who have been taught from a very
early age not to feel or allow their feelings
"to get out of hand", so they find it
is much easier to give. When you can
receive pleasure, it puts you in an open and
more receptive state. This requires a great deal
of trust and the ability to feel safe enough to
truly let go of control, to surrender
completely, to submerge into pleasure… Imagine
that your body is composed of many circuits
through which energy travels. Tantric approach
increases the flow of energy through the
circuits, and enables you to share much more
with your partner. By
allowing yourself to enjoy higher pleasures via
Tantric practices, you will awaken powerful
states of intimacy and emotional fulfillment.
Following
sessions will allow you to explore the
art of being a Master Lover at a deeper
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| What
happens at sessions for couples? |
| Couples'
sessions are customized to meet the specific
needs and desires of the partners involved. We
would begin the conversation and see what each
of you
individually and your relationship is ready to
receive. In addition to the initial
instructions in Tantra and learning skills, we
would get physical with some partner Tantra yoga
and Tantric massage, so you would learn to give to
each other with my guidance, by watching me
giving your partner Tantric Body Worship. If you're feeling
adventurous we could explore a "four handed
massage" which is really fun and
instructional. It's all up to your
imagination and your comfort level. Couples find me very easy to be with and
respectful of their relationship. We would
decide which partner is to be the focal point --
then the other partner and I work together
exploring and nurturing the receiver. I will
guide the giver and support the receiver to let
go and let love in. This is a great way to learn
how to honor your partner with a loving touch
that heals and awakens each of you to a life of
great joy and unlimited pleasures. |
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| How
do I schedule a session? |
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Please browse the website thoroughly before
deciding to schedule a session. You can email me
your inquiry, I check my email several times a
day. You can also call me.
Take
into account that I keep my phone off during
sessions. Please leave a message with your name
and phone number. I'll call you back within a
few hours. I answer questions and schedule actual appointments only over the
phone. Sorry, I don't have time to get involved
to lengthy email discussions. That's why this
site has so much information. |
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| How
far in advance can I schedule a session? |
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You can schedule a session as far in advance as
you wish. For advanced appointments I require a
$100 booking deposit. Once you are in my schedule book, you
have your spot. My devoted clients from other
cities and countries sometimes make appointments 3-4 months in
advance. I recommend scheduling at least one
week in advance to get your choice of day and time. |
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| Is
it possible to have an appointment on the same
day? |
| You
can try.
Occasionally I may be available on a short
notice if my schedule book is not filled up, or
if I have a cancellation. But don't count on this if
you seriously want to have a session with me. Better call
a few days in advance. |
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| What
if I can't keep my appointment? |
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Please email or call me, or leave a voice message about the
cancellation, at least 24 hours before the
scheduled time. Anyone who didn't show up for a
scheduled session without prior notification, gets on my
"black list" and gets listed on
several national "bad clients" lists. I will not make another
appointment with these people, unless they pay
in advance 50% for the missed session, and 100% for the
new one.
To protect myself from "no call, no show" occurrences
I require a $100 booking deposit to book a
guaranteed appointment in advance. If you don't want to
place a booking deposit, try a good luck
appointment by calling about 30 minutes before the
desired time to see if I have an opening for
you. See more information on the Rates
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| Do
you do outcalls? |
| 90%
of my private sessions are done in my place. Most
important reason why I prefer not doing outcalls is that
I've created such a
beautiful, spiritual and healing atmosphere in my Tantric Temple
that it's impossible to recreate in any other place.
However, I may occasionally
do outcalls to certain patrons for Tantric or
other sessions,
and it must be an
appointment for at least 2 hours, with $50 per
hour higher than my regular rates, and it must be scheduled
in advance, with $100 booking deposit. Save your
money, come to my place for much less! If you
invite me to your home, you must have a massage
table. I don't do Tantric bodywork sessions in
hotels, but I can come over for an educational
or energy work session (like Reiki, Quantum
Touch, BioSound, Chakra Balancing, Reconnection Healing, etc.) -
sessions that do not require bringing a massage
table with me. However, quite often I get invited to give group workshops (I prefer calling it
'playshops') on a variety of topics to businesses, clubs, organizations,
parties or friends gatherings. I am also available for outcalls for White
Tantra, Quantum Transformation and Sensual Trance Dancing sessions for groups
of 10 or more people.
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are your sessions more expensive than others'
massage sessions? |
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Sounds like the main point is missing
here.
First of all, I do not do just massage
sessions. I offer educational and
experiential Tantra sessions. Secondly, there are
thousands of massage therapists and amateur
massage providers around, but I am the
only one extensively trained and licensed
teacher of Tantra in the state of Nevada.
Kind of exclusive, isn't it? Please take
a look at my qualifications.
There are less than 50 practicing specialists
in the United States who have same level
of formal training in the field of
Tantra. And finally, if you compare
my rates with the rates of this
lady who is a
massage therapist, offering Tantric
sessions, you'll see that my
rates are very reasonable. And, by the
way, my non-Tantric bodywork and energy work sessions are only
$100 per hour. |
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| Do
you honor confidentiality? |
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Absolutely! I never share any personal information
about my clients with
anyone. If I discuss some interesting cases with
my colleagues I don't mention any names or
anything that can identify a person. Quite often
I work with well-known celebrities in sports,
movies, and entertaining industry, but never
chat about these people with others. Even when I
work with a couple separately I don't discuss
anything with the other party, unless
specifically asked to. I am very careful with
returning phone calls and leaving messages, so
people wouldn't get in trouble accidentally.
Generally
speaking, a professional Tantric Dakini or Daka is not a
threat to any relationship! Exactly opposite! Our mission is to
help people's relationships become much better,
whether we work with a couple or with just one
of the partners. Often my male students decide
to bring their wives or girlfriends after
visiting me once or twice. These women always
express great appreciation for giving them such
a great opportunity! Usually, these ladies
become my devoted students as well.
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| Do
you travel to other states or countries for
sessions? |
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Not now, but I am planning to do it in the future. Besides,
I am in LAS VEGAS - everybody comes here! |
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| Do
I need to bring anything? |
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Yes! Bring your open mind, good intentions, a student's
attitude, and a desire to
learn and experience! |
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| Are
you available for a personal relationship? |
| This
is my business site, not personal. All personal
questions, if appropriate, will be answered in
person. |
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| What
do I wear at your sessions? |
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are no requirements. You may wear anything from
tuxedo to nothing -- whatever makes you
feel comfortable and suits the purpose of your session.
When I do Tantric bodywork I prefer to have
access to your entire body, but if you are not
comfortable, I may use some kind of draping. |
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| What
do you wear at your sessions? |
| First
of all, my
sessions are not an entertainment show. Often I
get calls from guys whose main
concern is what I am going to wear at the
session, or they request me to wear
lingerie and high heels (any professional
Tantrika will join my laugh at such requests).
Usually those callers are simply not ready yet
for my sessions, they should rather see a model,
or an escort service, or go to one of those
girls who do body rubs with happy ending,
advertising that as "tantric massage"
- they will do anything for your money! Guys,
real Tantrikas don't wear high heels at their
session! We do it barefoot as we need to be
energetically connected with the Earth. Anyway,
at my sessions I wear or do not wear whatever I
am in the mood for -- possibly a colorful,
semi-transparent sarong, or harem pants &
bra, or a bikini, or a g-sting, or nothing --
whatever I feel proper. |
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are you also offering non-Tantric sessions? |
| Some
of my sessions are not directly Tantric, but
main healing principals of energy work,
breathing, sound therapy, relaxation,
self-healing, meditation, manifestation and
affirmation techniques, etc. are all rooted from
secret ancient teachings, and Tantra was one of
them. I am a naturally gifted and intuitive
hands-on healer, certified in several
modalities of healing energy work. I hold diplomas as a Natural Health Consultant, and
as a Relaxation Therapist.
Besides, I am working towards my PhD in
Transpersonal Counseling. I have a lot of
knowledge and experience to help people in many
areas related to their well-being and happiness. |
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Vega's sessions
are intended as coaching for self-improvement,
well-being and spiritual growth. All kinds of bodywork, energy work, healing and spiritual
rituals are intended as educational
demonstration for empirical method of learning.
Vega does not charge anything for any hands-on
sacred healing or bodywork or demonstrations. All
charges apply to her time, energy, expertise and
coaching as a licensed Tantra Yoga educator.
Any tips
reflect students' appreciation of their
educational experiences.
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NOTE: Vega is not a licensed massage therapist in the state
of Nevada. She does not practice medical massage, allopathic medicine or offer any services that
might be construed as medical massage,
medicine, or medical therapy. Vega's sessions
are limited to educational, metaphysical,
spiritual & alternative healing and
self-developing practices. If you feel you
need therapeutic or medical attention, please
seek the guidance, opinions and services of a
licensed medical practitioner.
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